I’ve always loved the idea of stepping out of my comfort zone and growing into new spaces. Maybe it’s because I’ve binge-watched every episode of Girl Meets World, Boy Meets World, and Emily in Paris. If my taste in shows doesn’t scream growth enthusiast, I don’t know what does! But let me tell you, moving from Nigeria to Vancouver was less romanticized Emily in Paris and more *Maryam Meets New Chaotic Reality*.
Let’s Talk Culture
Before we dive into my rollercoaster of experiences, let’s quickly clarify what culture is. Culture is more than just music or art—it’s a lifestyle. It’s how nature and nurture tag-team to mold us into who we are. It’s in the food we eat, the clothes we wear, how we greet one another, and even how we handle awkward silences (pro tip: Canadians love a good polite chuckle). Every little nitty-gritty aspect of life is soaked in culture. And let me tell you, Vancouver has plenty of it—all mixed up in one beautiful, confusing blend.
Cultural Shocks, or “Wait, People Really Do That?”
Moving to Vancouver was like getting a surprise party every day, except instead of cakes, it was cultural surprises. Here are a few shocks that rocked my world:
The Politeness Olympics
Canadians aren’t just nice; they’re Olympic-level polite. Someone bumps into you? They apologize. You make a mistake? They apologize. I’m starting to think they might say sorry if you stepped on their foot. At first, I thought this was a weirdly elaborate prank, but nope, it’s just how they roll. It’s wholesome—and slightly confusing for my Nigerian “we-move” energy.
The Great Coffee Obsession
In Vancouver, coffee isn’t just a drink; it’s a personality trait. Tim Hortons? Starbucks? Local indie coffee spots? Pick your poison because everyone’s got a cup glued to their hand. Meanwhile, I’m over here thinking, “Where are all the people drinking tea?” Honestly, the lack of Nigerian-style milk tea had me struggling.
The Rain Show
Snow may be Canada’s poster child, but in Vancouver, rain is the main character. It rains a lot. Forget umbrellas—everyone just wears hoodies or waterproof jackets and soldiers on in what I would describe as gentle showers. Coming from Nigeria, where rain meant cancelled plans and cozy vibes, this was a whole new vibe. Vancouverites treat rain like background music, and honestly, I respect it.
Diversity Overload (in the Best Way)
If I had a dollar for every time someone asked, “What’s Vancouver’s culture like?” I could buy myself an overpriced avocado toast. The truth? There isn’t a singular Vancouver culture. It’s a melting pot of cultures from around the world. One minute you’re eating sushi, the next you’re at an Indian festival, and by the weekend, you’re at a Greek restaurant. It’s dizzying—in the most beautiful way.
Adjusting Like a Pro (or Trying To)
So, how do you adjust when you’re constantly being surprised by new cultural quirks? Here’s what I’ve learned:
Come with an Open Mind
Expect to unlearn and relearn a lot. You’ll discover new customs, foods, and even new ways to say “hello” (*hint: a friendly “hey” will do*). Don’t cling too tightly to what you know—there’s beauty in the unfamiliar.
Be Curious
Ask questions. People here are happy to share their stories, whether it’s about their heritage, favorite places to eat, or why they think hockey is the greatest sport ever invented. (I’m still undecided on that one, by the way.)
Celebrate the Differences
Instead of comparing, try to appreciate what makes Vancouver’s cultural blend unique. You might miss Nigerian jollof, but hey, maybe you’ll fall in love with sushi rolls or poutine (although nothing beats jollof—let’s be real).
Find Your People
Diversity means you’ll likely find a piece of home here too. Whether it’s Nigerian food spots, community events, or even fellow international students, finding your tribe makes all the difference.
Moving from Nigeria to Vancouver was a huge leap of faith, but I’m glad I took it. Every day, I learn something new, whether it’s how to survive Vancouver’s rain or how to say “no” to yet another overpriced coffee (spoiler: I usually don’t). Cultural adjustment isn’t easy, but it’s worth it. So, pack your bags, bring your curiosity, and get ready for an adventure. Vancouver might not have a singular culture, but it has something even better—a place for everyone.
And if you’re still nervous, remember: if I can survive the rain and the coffee, so can you!
About the Author
Maryam Bature is currently pursuing a Master of Science in Finance at the SFU Beedie School of Business. She has two years of experience in the finance sector, including an internship with the Finance Department of the Nigerian Deposit Insurance Corporation and a role as an Assistant Relationship Manager at Stanbic IBTC Bank. Maryam holds dual bachelor’s degrees in Computer Science and Mathematics, with a minor in Business. Her professional and academic background has sharpened her analytical and problem-solving abilities while enhancing her expertise in managing commercial clients and understanding business financial structures.